Saturday, February 25, 2012

From where does your opinion derive?

If you do not like someone purely because of information that you are receiving from a third party would you please keep in mind that the person that you could possibly not like might just be the person to whom you are receiving your information from. The reason that the person from who you are receiving your information from might just be giving you the rainbows and butterflies portion of the story and if you were to see both sides as clearly as the one side has been presented to you, well, then your opinion might be completely different.

If you have never broken bread with a person. Sat down and talked with them face to face. Enjoyed their company for more than a brief glare. Then I'm sorry but you are not allowed to hate them.

I will say that this only applies in situations where the information you are receiving is here say. Let's say the person you are directing your anger to kills puppies and rips tags off mattresses well then by all means...hate away.

However, if the person is telling you how selfish the offender is and how they are so self centered and rude. Hold up Tonto you might not be receiving the entire story.

Be mature enough to hear your friends side of the story but hold off on sending your visual daggers until you truly know the other person. Lots of things can happen between two people that can be completely misconstrued if given the chance.

Yeah, I realize this is fairly random. Just needed to get it out. Have a great day!!!

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